CONFIDENCE PART 2

I am continuing my series on how to build confidence and i will share a few tips on what worked for me or what has been working for me: 1.Share what is it you want to do in life-you have to be very specific on this to avoid any confusion: my examples are: -i want to travel to specific countries with joy such as dubai,south-africa. -i want my wedding pictures up. One thing i have learnt about goal-setting is just have faith in it.Just believe,dont ask too many questions,let your mind rest. This has really helped me focus on my goals without any distractions,so that when distractions come,you are able to get back on track immediately. 2.Celebrate myself-this is a big one for me,for example like today i have to buy myself chocolate,its a must that we are constantly celebrating ourselves even when noone is.find a way to treat yourself,it could be something low budget,but works for you.clap for yourself,celebrate the small wins no matter how small and make it a lifestyle. 3.Be more clearer on your financial goals-i mentioned this in the last post and its a working progress,i am yet to draw up my excel sheet but what is the harm in trying and writing it down. 4.Get clear about your goals and gain clarity. 5.Have a vision board-make your vision board-cast the vision and write it down. 6.Stay thankful-you can never go wrong with thanksgiving,stay thankful for everything and the people God has provided in your life. 7.Discover yourself-i have discovered alot myself in the journey i am such as i am so much more focused,driven,how i actually go after i want,how i am a co-creator with God(creative),a visionary and a doer.these are all things i have discovered about myself with time and i appreacite them and i hope you do too.

CONFIDENCE PART 1

One thing i have learnt about confidence is that you have to build it and here are ways i have built mine a.First and foremost write down the things you want to be or become: Here are mine: -i want my leopards jumpsuit and heels,lol -i want alignment in my life,Godly alignment. These are just some of the examples and there is no shame in that.There is no shame in wanting good things in life and actually actualizing them. b.Another way is write down the things you want to do. A goal written down is not only achievable but shows you are 50% there.i am a bigger believer in this. Examples of what you want to do: i want to coach and earn a living from it. i want to do a job i love. The key in this is not just getting it done but putting action steps behind it and small steps become big steps,small wins become big wins. c.Another way is to also stop overthinking and trust yourself.this has been monumental to me especially in my dating life and has helped me overcome barriers i once had,for example;affirm yourself things like:i am a catch!i am a damn good catch!and from there it flows. d.work on your financial goals and by this,i mean me too.finances have a way to affect us no matter which walk of life you are from.if there is a way you can write them down and start working on them,your life will be so much better.i could also mention work with a budget,buy what you can afford and for the ladies,you do not have to be extravagant to look good.learn to thrift and again,work with a budget,an excel sheet could help. e.Be thankful and stay thankful no matter what.you become a more attractive person in life when you are thankful than when you are grumbling.if you have to write your thanksgiving list do it.Thank God!thank yourself!thank others and it will illuminate.it will come back to you 1000 fold.just like we are told in the bible to tithe and by attractive,it could even be in business,you attract more money,more people when you are thankful but this is not a means to an end,its a way of life.thankful people are normally so much more happier. f.write down what is it you would want to have in life; for example;mine in this area are: i have more than enough enough money to do the things i love. i have a Godly spouse. These work well with affirmations and how you see yourself or who you believe you are.you can only attract who it is you believe you are.if you believe in Godly marriages like me,you attract that.set small simple goals to achieve that which you want in life and leave it in God;s hands for He is the author and finisher of our faith!amen! Kindly apply and tell me how it goes.all the best to you.