CONFIDENCE PART 1

One thing i have learnt about confidence is that you have to build it and here are ways i have built mine a.First and foremost write down the things you want to be or become: Here are mine: -i want my leopards jumpsuit and heels,lol -i want alignment in my life,Godly alignment. These are just some of the examples and there is no shame in that.There is no shame in wanting good things in life and actually actualizing them. b.Another way is write down the things you want to do. A goal written down is not only achievable but shows you are 50% there.i am a bigger believer in this. Examples of what you want to do: i want to coach and earn a living from it. i want to do a job i love. The key in this is not just getting it done but putting action steps behind it and small steps become big steps,small wins become big wins. c.Another way is to also stop overthinking and trust yourself.this has been monumental to me especially in my dating life and has helped me overcome barriers i once had,for example;affirm yourself things like:i am a catch!i am a damn good catch!and from there it flows. d.work on your financial goals and by this,i mean me too.finances have a way to affect us no matter which walk of life you are from.if there is a way you can write them down and start working on them,your life will be so much better.i could also mention work with a budget,buy what you can afford and for the ladies,you do not have to be extravagant to look good.learn to thrift and again,work with a budget,an excel sheet could help. e.Be thankful and stay thankful no matter what.you become a more attractive person in life when you are thankful than when you are grumbling.if you have to write your thanksgiving list do it.Thank God!thank yourself!thank others and it will illuminate.it will come back to you 1000 fold.just like we are told in the bible to tithe and by attractive,it could even be in business,you attract more money,more people when you are thankful but this is not a means to an end,its a way of life.thankful people are normally so much more happier. f.write down what is it you would want to have in life; for example;mine in this area are: i have more than enough enough money to do the things i love. i have a Godly spouse. These work well with affirmations and how you see yourself or who you believe you are.you can only attract who it is you believe you are.if you believe in Godly marriages like me,you attract that.set small simple goals to achieve that which you want in life and leave it in God;s hands for He is the author and finisher of our faith!amen! Kindly apply and tell me how it goes.all the best to you.